September 30th - A challenging day

October 1, 2024
This might end up being a long post but it will have nothing to do with politics or Halloween. 

Today is and will always be one of the hardest days in my life. Today, 34 years ago, I lost a best friend, a roommate, a brother and his family lost a son and his future ended in a helicopter crash off the coast of Oregon. Many of my AW brothers were there and pleading to go into the water to try and assist but were denied. I can only imagine the frustration with that as we were Rescue Swimmers, trained to put our lives in danger so others may live. That is who we were then and I feel many of us are still that way today. 
I was on my way to Desert Shield, something that would also affect me, but this crash and the loss of my best friend and two other friends, has deeply impacted me to this day. I was a young, just turned 22 year old, who knew he was invincible and was going to live forever, when I was pulled out of the aviation space onboard the ship and waked to the back of the flight deck. There I was told about the accident and that everyone onboard was killed. Knowing how our friendship was throughout the squadron, it was hesitantly mentioned after a bit of a pause that the AW onboard was Bill, Nick, Nolte. I look back at that moment so many times and think I how I handled getting the news. Even to this day I do not think I could have adequately handled it or received it that would have made the moment any less true or more real. I was completely numb and in shock and therefore had very little emotional response or feelings at that very moment. All those came soon after and often flooded me with guilt, response guilt and survivor guilt, anger, fear, anxiety, depression and a hole in my life that would never go away. 
So today, 34 years later, my memory is still full of this tragic day and my life has never been the same. I lost a part of me that day. Perhaps it was the feeing of invincibility and immortality and as young kid, I was shown that somethings will affect you with much greater impacts than you ever realized or even understood. I had to hide a lot of my hurt and pain, bury it deep because once you let those thoughts in, you lose the edge and this is coming from always living in the edge in the helicopter community. You know the risks associated with it and know you may not come home one night or one mission. It’s a small knit family and you always felt the pain and angst when a helicopter went down and hope for the best. You may not even know the people involved but they became close at that moment. So I had to hold everything down for years because again, you couldn’t let weakness show because you were then cast in a different light. I know this happened because there were people who allowed their “weakness” to show and we criticized and harassed them. It wasn’t  right but that’s what happened and I realized it later and I know the military has changed a lot since then and some will say even softened up a bit, but hopefully everyone can get a sense that we are all human and have flaws and weaknesses but we also have strengths and shining points. 
So essentially, I am finally getting help for all the memories, pain, suffering in silence, guilt, depression, anxiety and long list of other issues I’ve dealt with since this day in 1990. Yes, I am pulling the curtain back and revealing the real me. No memes, no politics, no Halloween, no nothing but the pure, raw Bill. It’s never too late to get help for yourself and try to work with instead of against your past issues. I know I’ve isolated myself from a lot of people, friends and family members because of all this that has changed me from 34 years ago. I am trying to change who I am and be more “out there” so if any of you feel you’re going through similar issues in life, reach out to me. I will try to be there with you. 

And as the last thought of today, here I am with Bill during SAR jumps in June of 1990. My last pic with him and this is his headstone from Minnesota. Rest well brother. You’re never forgotten.
 

Sep 18th - 3 years

September 18, 2024
Greetings foolish mortals.  Today is my third anniversary of having purchased my first Toyota Tacoma.  Not sure if it'll be my last but I'm hoping to get some good use out of her.  Got 60,000 miles on her and swapped out the tires at about 50,000 miles.  Put my new favorite tires on her, Yokohamas which I loved after putting them on my previous truck, The Desert Runner.

One week left until I am done with my current job.  While it's a bit bittersweet, I'm excited and nervous for the new challen...
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September 8th - A special day

September 9, 2024
Greetings foolish mortals.  Today is a very special day for the BBP.

First, 38 years ago, a young, skinny 18 year old, naive kid, left home and joined the United States Navy.  He was nervous and unsure of his decision but stuck through it and is now, forever a part of history.  He saw and did many things, things most people could never do or even survive and yet he's always risen to the challenges placed before him.

12 years later, he embarked on yet again, another life changing adventure.  Sta...
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September 1st - Welcome to September

September 2, 2024
Welcome foolish mortals and welcome to September. We are off and running.

The best birthday month is behind us now but it did give us the start to Epcot Food and Wine Festival and also the beginning to Halloween Horror Nights. The BBP visited both on their respective opening days and had a very good time. I’ll be writing more descriptions as we progress through our visits but the Beer braised beef and Gouda mashed potatoes are amazing again. 

Been starting to film my excursions too as I’m w...
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August 25th - Almost time

August 26, 2024
Greetings foolish mortals!!!  Well, it has been an interesting few weeks to say the least.  Been down with Covid but am feeling much better finally.  Took a week of rest to get there.

Have finally gotten my GoPro working now and have made a few videos and posted them on Youtube.  I'll add the links in here for them.  Been a couple of weeks since my bday but as mentioned, finally got the videos loaded.  

Got some other news that I will announce a little later as well.

We've also got Epcot Food an...
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August 14th - Happy Birthday

August 14, 2024
Greetings foolish mortals.  Like The Haunted Mansion, the BBP recently had a birthday.  It was a day of enjoying rope drop time at Animal Kingdom and getting on a couple of attractions not yet ridden.

First one was Navi River Journey.  The wait time said 20 minutes but it was closer to 12.  It was a much welcome relief from the heat and humidity in the early Florida weather.  Nice and cool and shaded.  The ride itself, not so interesting.  The special effects were very cool and it was calm and...
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August 1st - Welcome to August

August 2, 2024
Greetings foolish mortals and welcome to the best month. 

It’s the BBP’s bday month and the celebrations are in line. 

There’s Halloween stuff starting up and Epcot food and wine festival is coming too. 

Much things on the horizon. 

Until next time…

BBP out!!!
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July 1st - Welcome to July

July 2, 2024
Welcome foolish mortals and welcome to July.  It's been hot as hell here and rainy too.  

Been so much going on lately but keeping things close to the chest. On more open news, we are closer to Halloween and seeing things in the stores which is nice.  Next month starts Halloween Horror Nights as well as Epcot Food and Wine Festival.  Playing some golf too so my game is getting better.  

Hope everyone stays cool and has a great start of the summer.

Until next time...

BBP out!!!...
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June 1st - Welcome June

June 2, 2024
Greetings, foolish mortals. Welcome to June and also welcome to the first day of hurricane season. I’ve continued my streak with only updating it once a month and I hope to break that this month.

been a busy time that has kept me away from my updates and from doing a lot of things but hopefully that will change and we will get to this more often.

Not really a whole lot to report just the same old same old that we’ve been doing. We have been enjoying a few trips to Walt Disney World to all t...
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May 1st - It’s gonna be May!!!

May 2, 2024
Greetings foolish mortals and welcome to May. Been a month since I updated the site but the BBP has been run down with Influenza. Really wiped us out. Still not 100% but getting much better. 

Things are moving along though so we got that going for us…which is nice. 

Until next time…

BBP Out!!!
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